He’s been
gone for two years now but fresh proof materialized just this morning
that the pull of his personality lives on. As we approached Bob Nagel’s old
place on MacKenzie Hill
after our Dalem Lake constitutional, Jan and I heard the familiar strains of a
New Holland tractor mowing hay—well, hay
may be a bit too grandiose a term to describe the weedy, motley mix now growing
in Bob’s field. The man operating the tractor is the same one who performed the
service lo these many years, a guy with plenty of other options for spending
his precious summer time—local, long-time Member of Parliament, Mark Eyking.
The thing is, Mark is among the myriad throng who loved Bob
Nagel and cherished the times he shared with him. Mark is just one of the folks
around Boularderie Island who seek avenues for communing with their dearly departed friend.
On a beautiful mid-July summer morning cutting Bob’s hay struck Mark as the
best available means for connecting with his late, lamented pal. This communion
is the only reward Mark will reap for his labours: Bob’s MP pal has no need of the
hay—or whatever it is we should call the crop—and won’t get any material reward
for cutting it. His reward will be a strictly immaterial one—the good feeling
of seeing a job well done, the same job that Bob cherished over the many haying
seasons that preceded the present one.
Mark is not alone. Others do their bit for their old friend
even though the friend is absent. Jim Troke cuts the grass of the laneway and
an apron around the old house. Bob’s nephew Dennis, the new laird of the manor
at Wuthering Heights, will arrive in ten days time to find the grounds of the
old place as well groomed as they ever were. Mark, Jim and others carry out
their acts of remembrance—small and not so small—perhaps imagining the friend
they cherished would be delighted at the ongoing proof that Robert Carl Nagel mattered in these here parts.
Wherever we wander on Boularderie we run into people
who want to remember Robert—and share favourite anecdotes about the man from
Boston who spent only the summer here but who seemed as much an integral part
of the local community as anyone who lived here all the year round. Always a pleasure, Bob would say after
hanging out with friends on his porch for an afternoon or an evening, always a joy. The friends knew he meant it.
Contention was a rare ingredient in Bob’s friendships but,
possessed of a high-strung, volatile personality and being overly fond of
political argument, I was someone who sometimes crossed metaphorical swords
with him. We had unaligned views about politicians, views I was keen
to debate, but like everyone else, I too relished the merriment and great fun
that flourished whenever people gathered on Bob’s porch to savour what he irreverently
liked to call “good Christian fellowship”.
On our way to and from Dalem Lake Jan and I walk past Bob’s
place almost every day. I am like all the others: I too remember the fun and
frivolity, the mayhem and mischief that unfolded behind the yellow door at the last
house on MacKenzie ridge. I too miss facets of friendship: the laughter, the
show tunes, the Jussi Bjoerling arias, the 2002 construction of the porch that
became the venue for so much hospitality, horseplay and hilarity.
Neither Mark nor Jim need or want to be commended for their
acts of friendship but I commend them anyway.
Mark’s efforts this morning were aimed at Bobby Nagel but they warmed
another heart this morning—in spades.
3 comments:
Thank you for your wonderful words about my late uncle. Bob is truly missed by all who knew him. I am grateful to have shared time, laughs, good food and drink, and show tunes with him as well. <3
Hi Alan!
This is so beautifully written. Please tell Mark and Jim how grateful we are for the care everyone — including you and Jan — have all taken in maintaining Bob’s “Manor at Wuthering Heights”! It’s truly so heartwarming to read your blogs that mention Bobby and his beloved character. I see in your skilled arts of word compilation that you hold him so dear to your heart. Your writing offers further aid in keeping Uncle Bob alive in all of our hearts too. Hearing this news from afar truly reminds me “what is the purpose of this” life we live. ;) I hope that my children are able to understand the purpose of it all better than I did at their age when they explore the surrounding lands this week with my Dad & Nancy (and hopefully you and Jan too!?) Wish I was there! I hope to visit soon!
Always a pleasure!
Brooke
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